Well he has been almost a perfect student since he went back to school after Christmas break. I have been sooooooo proud of him. My cell phone rang a few minutes ago - and you know those numbers you see on your caller I.D. and you say oh no. Yep, he managed to disrespect a teacher and use foul language to boot and was sent to the BRT room. You know the one with cubicles and a warden? I feel like crying. I am disappointed, hurt and angry with him. I agree with the referral. But unlike a "normal" kid that would get a referral to the office and get a good talking to this affects him more severe - he had just went from yellow to green now he is back on yellow. I am not sure how far back on yellow yet. He will be spending the rest of the day with the warden but at least school is almost out. He will go back Monday and spend 5th period with the warden again. If all goes well things will resume as normal Tuesday. I want to choke him. He has done so well - not sure if I should slam him with punishment at home too. Having to be with the warden is pretty bad punishment itself. What would you guys do??