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Need Advice-19 yr old college son trying marijuanna and ?
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<blockquote data-quote="frustrateddad" data-source="post: 7568" data-attributes="member: 3366"><p>Thank all of you guys for your support and input! Here is the follow up of the last couple of weeks! He must have done some thinking since my firm comments of that night, and the next afternoon. He called the following afternoon, said he was coming home, but only had $1.00 in his billfold, and his debit card was overdrawn! I, as calmly as I could, said "I thought you had everything all figured out". I was volunteering at a Choir concert at the time, and told him to call me in a couple of hours when I could talk! (as the performance was just beginning). Later that evening, he showed up, acting as if nothing had ever happened. He said he wanted to talk later. Later finally arrived, and he said he understood our house rules, and agreed to be drug tested. The strange thing is that he started telling me that the urine or blood tests weren't accurate, and that I should just wait until the end of the next semester, and do a "hair" test and that he would stay clean. I told him that I would research the available drug tests, but since our trust was shaken, he should expect multiple test in the future. So far, he has abided by our 2:00am curfew at home and for some reason (knock on wood) is acting very accomodating to our wishes.(other than the typical behavior of not picking up after himself and leaving dishes, clothes etc. everywhere) I would like to believe that he finally found out that he had pushed us to our limit, and found the wall where we would not budge, but I am a realist. We will continue to be suspect, monitor as many conversations as we can, whether it be land phone, cell phone, cell messages, or my space conversations, or anything else we can find.</p><p></p><p>We will continue to be suspicious about delivery to others. The auto titling suggestions are great! Only time will tell whether he is sincere about going drug free, or just pacifying us during this college interlude. Other than flunking Chemistry, his grades were fairly decent. Thank everyone on the board for your input, thoughts, and prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="frustrateddad, post: 7568, member: 3366"] Thank all of you guys for your support and input! Here is the follow up of the last couple of weeks! He must have done some thinking since my firm comments of that night, and the next afternoon. He called the following afternoon, said he was coming home, but only had $1.00 in his billfold, and his debit card was overdrawn! I, as calmly as I could, said "I thought you had everything all figured out". I was volunteering at a Choir concert at the time, and told him to call me in a couple of hours when I could talk! (as the performance was just beginning). Later that evening, he showed up, acting as if nothing had ever happened. He said he wanted to talk later. Later finally arrived, and he said he understood our house rules, and agreed to be drug tested. The strange thing is that he started telling me that the urine or blood tests weren't accurate, and that I should just wait until the end of the next semester, and do a "hair" test and that he would stay clean. I told him that I would research the available drug tests, but since our trust was shaken, he should expect multiple test in the future. So far, he has abided by our 2:00am curfew at home and for some reason (knock on wood) is acting very accomodating to our wishes.(other than the typical behavior of not picking up after himself and leaving dishes, clothes etc. everywhere) I would like to believe that he finally found out that he had pushed us to our limit, and found the wall where we would not budge, but I am a realist. We will continue to be suspect, monitor as many conversations as we can, whether it be land phone, cell phone, cell messages, or my space conversations, or anything else we can find. We will continue to be suspicious about delivery to others. The auto titling suggestions are great! Only time will tell whether he is sincere about going drug free, or just pacifying us during this college interlude. Other than flunking Chemistry, his grades were fairly decent. Thank everyone on the board for your input, thoughts, and prayers. [/QUOTE]
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