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<blockquote data-quote="worried sick mother" data-source="post: 664283" data-attributes="member: 19069"><p>Well we went ahead with meeting with my son before I got these responses . We told my son that he complied with the treatment plan or everything was cut off. I actually wrote it out on paper and also said that we will call 911 every single time he threatens suicide. He ask what the counselor was for and we told him that she deals with everything. That we love him and just want him to be happy again. He already said that's fine but if they mention drugs then he's done and we said we would be done too with finances. Had a major disagreement with my mother because I just decided to not go today until we could talk to the counselor but she insisted. She thinks this is so wonderful that he agreed to go, he will just stop when anything about drugs is mentioned and we will be right back where we started from. It's never ending! I know I'm negative but it's just the same thing over and over, I wanted this time to be right but my enabling mother just wants to delay it a little longer. I will clarify with the counselor if we did this right , I will take notes from now on at our visits and I'm going to ask if I can even record the meetings. I had my son when I was 17 so my mother is very involved, she did not raise him but she has always helped me and been a big part of his life. He is closer to her now than he is me and that's because I don't buy his lies or put up with it the way she does. This is just tearing us completely apart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="worried sick mother, post: 664283, member: 19069"] Well we went ahead with meeting with my son before I got these responses . We told my son that he complied with the treatment plan or everything was cut off. I actually wrote it out on paper and also said that we will call 911 every single time he threatens suicide. He ask what the counselor was for and we told him that she deals with everything. That we love him and just want him to be happy again. He already said that's fine but if they mention drugs then he's done and we said we would be done too with finances. Had a major disagreement with my mother because I just decided to not go today until we could talk to the counselor but she insisted. She thinks this is so wonderful that he agreed to go, he will just stop when anything about drugs is mentioned and we will be right back where we started from. It's never ending! I know I'm negative but it's just the same thing over and over, I wanted this time to be right but my enabling mother just wants to delay it a little longer. I will clarify with the counselor if we did this right , I will take notes from now on at our visits and I'm going to ask if I can even record the meetings. I had my son when I was 17 so my mother is very involved, she did not raise him but she has always helped me and been a big part of his life. He is closer to her now than he is me and that's because I don't buy his lies or put up with it the way she does. This is just tearing us completely apart. [/QUOTE]
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