I just sent my son to his Grandmother's for the holiday. My sister and brother live in the same town as well. I had him on a great schedule where he gets up early (for him) and goes to bed early (for him), he's taking his medications, doing at least one productive thing each day. He enrolled in college and picked out a high school to attend next semester. Great, so off he goes to grandma's and everything gets thrown off! My mother, sister and brother work all day so he is left all day in the house with no one to keep him on track. So he slept all day! And my mom is mad about this! Even though he is out of state he should still get up and go to a gym or something. Am I wrong to be mad at my mother, my sister and brother for not being there to get him up and going? I did ask them in advance if it was okay for him to come and they all said yes and how they knew how it important it was to keep him on a schedule. I know he's not a baby, but he does have issues. Either I tell him to buck up and get himself up and out the door or I yell at my mother! Or I tell her kindly to please leave work early or ask someone in the family to?? By the way, he's on Effexor now and he seems better (takes Zyprexa also). Help!