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NEED ADVICE talked to difficult child's PO today!
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 13651" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>"he had the opportunity to shorten his sentence & he blew that. nothing signifcant has changed to think he would do any better on the outside. quite the opposite. "</p><p></p><p>Kris, I agree with you that difficult child blew an opportunity for an early out. I do not agree that there is nothing significant to make me think he would do better on the outside. My difficult child has been in and out of trouble all his life. He has always had a hard time self regulating. He was always impulsive and never really understood boundries. It didn't become a legal problem until he was in HS. He is very easily influenced by other people both good and bad. </p><p></p><p>My difficult child has only ever done well with alot of caring support. That is not anything he will get in prison. difficult child can be loving and kind and compassionate. He can be respectful and conciderate. He has a wonderful sence of humor and has a desire to do well and "prove" himself. Like every other mom here on the board I talk mostly about difficult child's problems but he does have a good side too. Just like all our difficult child's do. I often think about Janet's and Ant's story. It was not until Janet brought Ant home and gave him the support system he needed that he began to really turn around. I openly admit that Ant had come a much longer way before Janet brough him home than my difficult child has come but the beautiful posts she has been making have given me much to think about and also much hope. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 13651, member: 2315"] "he had the opportunity to shorten his sentence & he blew that. nothing signifcant has changed to think he would do any better on the outside. quite the opposite. " Kris, I agree with you that difficult child blew an opportunity for an early out. I do not agree that there is nothing significant to make me think he would do better on the outside. My difficult child has been in and out of trouble all his life. He has always had a hard time self regulating. He was always impulsive and never really understood boundries. It didn't become a legal problem until he was in HS. He is very easily influenced by other people both good and bad. My difficult child has only ever done well with alot of caring support. That is not anything he will get in prison. difficult child can be loving and kind and compassionate. He can be respectful and conciderate. He has a wonderful sence of humor and has a desire to do well and "prove" himself. Like every other mom here on the board I talk mostly about difficult child's problems but he does have a good side too. Just like all our difficult child's do. I often think about Janet's and Ant's story. It was not until Janet brought Ant home and gave him the support system he needed that he began to really turn around. I openly admit that Ant had come a much longer way before Janet brough him home than my difficult child has come but the beautiful posts she has been making have given me much to think about and also much hope. -RM [/QUOTE]
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