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NEED ADVICE talked to difficult child's PO today!
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 13655" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Thank you Karen. I agree that I would want my own plan aside from the PO. I am pretty sure I would be safe as long as difficult child isn't using. But therein lies the problem. I need to make sure there is a strong enough support system in place that difficult child doesn't immediately go back to his old friends and his old ways. What is the best way to acomplish this? The truth is I do not know. So much of it depends on difficult child being willing and able to take advantage of the supports that will be in place. </p><p></p><p>husband is being pretty rigid right now.He has agreed to be open to discussion but has very strong feelings for not letting difficult child come home to our house. husband wants to get difficult child a small apt and we would administer in the executive functions dept. I do not think that is a good solution. It gives difficult child too much unsupervised time and the apt could end up just providing difficult child and his deadbeat friends with a place to party and it would be on our dime. husband says that if difficult child chose to use the apt in that way, then it would be on difficult child. husband says that at least I and easy child 2 and husband would not be at risk. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 13655, member: 2315"] Thank you Karen. I agree that I would want my own plan aside from the PO. I am pretty sure I would be safe as long as difficult child isn't using. But therein lies the problem. I need to make sure there is a strong enough support system in place that difficult child doesn't immediately go back to his old friends and his old ways. What is the best way to acomplish this? The truth is I do not know. So much of it depends on difficult child being willing and able to take advantage of the supports that will be in place. husband is being pretty rigid right now.He has agreed to be open to discussion but has very strong feelings for not letting difficult child come home to our house. husband wants to get difficult child a small apt and we would administer in the executive functions dept. I do not think that is a good solution. It gives difficult child too much unsupervised time and the apt could end up just providing difficult child and his deadbeat friends with a place to party and it would be on our dime. husband says that if difficult child chose to use the apt in that way, then it would be on difficult child. husband says that at least I and easy child 2 and husband would not be at risk. -RM [/QUOTE]
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