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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 638407" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>GM, hon, calm down. There is no guarantee she will have four horrible years and not make friends. None of us can tell the future. I don't want to prolong this conversation too far because it is what it is and not about anyone directly involved who is asking for help. But I do hope you have a peaceful night and can focus on yourself and making your own life better. I realize not everyone can take lemons and make lemonades (notice the plural). But they can seek out help and can learn to be happier and calmer if they really don't feel comfortable with their lives. Everyone can do it.</p><p></p><p>It is one's decision to try to be happy as much as one can find happiness or to be unhappy and not seek out any change. I don't judge. I just feel bad for those who think they are too far in the hole to climb out. It is everyone's personal decision where they will go and how they will get there...some will stay in the same miserable place, if they decide not to try. And that's their decision. And, yes, it's sad, but nobody can help the person if the person wants to stay there.</p><p></p><p>As I write this, I realize I can't change your mind either. So I will end this with a wish for a happiness sometime very soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 638407, member: 1550"] GM, hon, calm down. There is no guarantee she will have four horrible years and not make friends. None of us can tell the future. I don't want to prolong this conversation too far because it is what it is and not about anyone directly involved who is asking for help. But I do hope you have a peaceful night and can focus on yourself and making your own life better. I realize not everyone can take lemons and make lemonades (notice the plural). But they can seek out help and can learn to be happier and calmer if they really don't feel comfortable with their lives. Everyone can do it. It is one's decision to try to be happy as much as one can find happiness or to be unhappy and not seek out any change. I don't judge. I just feel bad for those who think they are too far in the hole to climb out. It is everyone's personal decision where they will go and how they will get there...some will stay in the same miserable place, if they decide not to try. And that's their decision. And, yes, it's sad, but nobody can help the person if the person wants to stay there. As I write this, I realize I can't change your mind either. So I will end this with a wish for a happiness sometime very soon. [/QUOTE]
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