I can't believe she is actually going to do this! I need all of you to send very strong "Stay home Diva!" vibes her way! Diva's friend "He is not my boyfriend, he has a girlfriend, but he spends more time with me then her" wants to come home. He is stuck in Florida with his girlfriend. Diva discouraged him from going last Fall but the girl has some type of control over him -everyone knew he did not want to go - he even procrastinated as long as possible. I think the girl is controlling him with money - he doesn't work and she provides everything he needs as long as he stays with her type of deal. Anyway, they have broken up, got back together, broken up, got back together, ect the entire time he has been down there. The girl refused to help him come home for his dad's funeral (she knew he wouldn't return to her if he did). They live with her mom. After a huge fall out with her family, he has decided to come back home to MN (25 hour drive per map quest). The problem is that he does not want to drive back alone and does not want to leave his vehicle down there. I strongly vote that he sell the car for a plane ticket and fly home, get a job and purchase another car. Doesn't want to leave his little beat up car down there. So, the plan is that Diva is going to fly down there and ride back with him so that he has a traveling companion. My 2nd vote would be that he drive back with a friend that is down there and that friend fly back (even if Diva pays for the plane ticket - at least she will be safe and sound here during this event!). Diva asked me last night if I would give her a ride to the Cities this weekend or next (3 hour drive). When I asked why, she said she was going to be flying to FL. I told her, "No, you are not to do this. I will have no part of this." I then put a call into her aunt to let her know what was happening (Diva will be asking her for help) and that I am against it. So, strong "DIVA STAY HOME" vibes sent her way for about a week. She should catch the vibes by then? Thank you!