My son came back into town today and is staying at a hotel nearby. He is not in his right mind. I got a letter today from the DPS and his license is suspended until Sept 2016 due to his recent run in with the law (driving with a suspended license, drug paraphernalia, no insurance). I spoke to him a few minutes ago to tell him the letter said he needed to forfeit his license, pay $100. He started screaming at me that it was all my fault since I kicked him out and that's why he got in trouble, he has no place to live (since I kicked him out) and it's ALL MY FAULT and he doesn't care because he is buying a car tomorrow, moving out of this f'ing city and away from me as I have serious anger issues, etc. Master manipulator turning it all on me, it's all my fault. When I talked to him he was not right - something is seriously wrong, he almost sounded suicidal. I told him that was the problem and the reason why I'm so angry - he is clueless and ruining his life. To go purchase a car (he says he can buy a car regardless, even if he doesn't have insurance or a valid license) and he can get a job (yea, with 3, now 4 drug convictions on his record) and I'm a nutcase, I'm delusional, etc. Something is seriously wrong with my son. At age 23 he keeps breaking the law and I'm the bad guy, it's all my fault, I kicked him out and I'm a bad mother. I kicked him out because he spent the last 4 year after he graduated high school, getting high, getting arrested, doing probation, paying court/attorney's fees, getting arrested, getting high....disrespecting me and my home.... I had enough, I blew a fuse, kicked him out and it's all my fault. He's ruined his life - his drug charges and suspended license, now he has threated he's buying a car (which he has no business driving because he gets pulled over every time he gets behind the wheel).... It's like he is on a mission to show me because I kicked him out. I'm being punished, not him. Help - I'm scared to death because he was at his hotel screaming in the hallway at me, he's desperate and acting crazy. I have no one to call for help and he knows that. He was yelling at me then hung up. Not once since I kicked him out has he apologized or asked to make amends - he's crazy and angry and in his mind - it's all my fault, I've done this to him. He can't seem to remember his 3 trips to jail and all the times I bailed him out, rescued him at 2am when he and his buddy got in a head on accident and I showed up to rush him to the hospital with his head busted open. I've been a great mother but had enough and kicked him out. Now he's going to destroy himself and let me know it's all my fault. I really need help on how to deal with this. I'm scared he is going to do something drastic - he was talking and acting crazy. And not remorseful for anything. He is determined to buy a car tomorrow (he has $20K inheritance in the bank to spend). What do I do? I'm scared, upset, he hates me cause it's all my fault. Is this what they do when they get desperate? The way he talked to me on the phone was horrible. Then he hung up on me. What do I do? What if he kills himself? Or is he bluffing to punish me?