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Need help evicting my 27 y/o drug addicted son
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<blockquote data-quote="Eugenia" data-source="post: 705444" data-attributes="member: 21226"><p>Just for clarity:</p><p>The teenage daughter has just turned 18 years old, so no longer a minor.</p><p>He TOLD her that he took $100 to pay back a friend, and actually left her $30 change, because the debt was $70. It's no excuse, but it's the facts.</p><p>I have never reported the stolen items to the insurance company, I never wanted to see him arrested. But that ship has sailed now... </p><p></p><p>Also, he knew I was afraid of the shame of having the Police come to the house. We had that happen in High School, and it was horrible, especially for the child who was only 5 years old at the time, and now, at age 18, admits to having a vivid memory of the incident. So it's all she's known of her brother, and she loves him, unconditionally. She actually aspires to major in Neuro Biology to study the brain, because of her brother's addiction issues.</p><p></p><p>I pleaded with the Police to please not publish this arrest in the paper. They told me that unfortunately they had no control of this. It's a shame that things like these arrests are published for all the 'Looky-Loos" to read and gossip about. The press should consider the family, that maybe there are children in the house, some that attend the schools in town, with students of parents who read and tell these reports to their children, their classmates. It's very hurtful. My daughter has a close friend in town who has experienced this, since she attends school in town. My daughter attends a parochial high school, so a little more removed from the gossip.</p><p></p><p>Again, that ship has sailed. His crimes of shoplifting have been published, during his crime spree last winter. Since he knows I'm afraid of the shame, he always has held "call the police" over my head because he thought I was afraid of the shame of the neighbors knowing.... fact is, it was New Years Eve, and most of the neighbors were out for the night, and I asked the police to come without Lights on, and they obliged. </p><p></p><p>He was doing well, after the DRC jail program, and we let him return home to live with us, my husband even let him work in his business along side of him. It was a dream we always had, have him take over the business one day, he's got the talent to do so, but it's lost in addiction now. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all for listening... WHAT A WONDERFUL PLACE THIS IS! You are all so supportive, I'm glad I found you <3</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Eugenia, post: 705444, member: 21226"] Just for clarity: The teenage daughter has just turned 18 years old, so no longer a minor. He TOLD her that he took $100 to pay back a friend, and actually left her $30 change, because the debt was $70. It's no excuse, but it's the facts. I have never reported the stolen items to the insurance company, I never wanted to see him arrested. But that ship has sailed now... Also, he knew I was afraid of the shame of having the Police come to the house. We had that happen in High School, and it was horrible, especially for the child who was only 5 years old at the time, and now, at age 18, admits to having a vivid memory of the incident. So it's all she's known of her brother, and she loves him, unconditionally. She actually aspires to major in Neuro Biology to study the brain, because of her brother's addiction issues. I pleaded with the Police to please not publish this arrest in the paper. They told me that unfortunately they had no control of this. It's a shame that things like these arrests are published for all the 'Looky-Loos" to read and gossip about. The press should consider the family, that maybe there are children in the house, some that attend the schools in town, with students of parents who read and tell these reports to their children, their classmates. It's very hurtful. My daughter has a close friend in town who has experienced this, since she attends school in town. My daughter attends a parochial high school, so a little more removed from the gossip. Again, that ship has sailed. His crimes of shoplifting have been published, during his crime spree last winter. Since he knows I'm afraid of the shame, he always has held "call the police" over my head because he thought I was afraid of the shame of the neighbors knowing.... fact is, it was New Years Eve, and most of the neighbors were out for the night, and I asked the police to come without Lights on, and they obliged. He was doing well, after the DRC jail program, and we let him return home to live with us, my husband even let him work in his business along side of him. It was a dream we always had, have him take over the business one day, he's got the talent to do so, but it's lost in addiction now. Thank you all for listening... WHAT A WONDERFUL PLACE THIS IS! You are all so supportive, I'm glad I found you <3 [/QUOTE]
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