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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714000" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Enabling indicates you are paying for bad decisions your grown child makes. It sounds more like you feel you HAVE to give her money she already has...puzzling. But OK.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter can refuse your money. I am not bashing her, but I would respect her more if she refused to take anything from you. She cant be a young kid and she makes good money and a fiance who works too. No reason for her to take your money even if it is offered. She knows you need to retire one day...moreover YOU need to live your own life apart from Daughter.</p><p></p><p>Do seek therapy to learn how to let adult daughhter handle her own life while building a life for YOU.</p><p></p><p>Good luck on finding what you are looking for!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714000, member: 1550"] Enabling indicates you are paying for bad decisions your grown child makes. It sounds more like you feel you HAVE to give her money she already has...puzzling. But OK. Your daughter can refuse your money. I am not bashing her, but I would respect her more if she refused to take anything from you. She cant be a young kid and she makes good money and a fiance who works too. No reason for her to take your money even if it is offered. She knows you need to retire one day...moreover YOU need to live your own life apart from Daughter. Do seek therapy to learn how to let adult daughhter handle her own life while building a life for YOU. Good luck on finding what you are looking for!!! [/QUOTE]
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