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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 688414" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi Shes. Welcome.</p><p></p><p>There has to be a way to disconnect from what she does, instead of going into panic mode which believe me I understand. Like a lock and a key. Right now she triggers your lock. What if you could come to make it so that her key no longer fits?</p><p></p><p>I do not know how but I know it is possible. You may have to endure fits from her for a while until she gets there will be no response from you, that she wants. Remember intermittent responding with a reward (giving in) is the worst. That is, only occasionally rewarding her behavior. That has been shown to result in the most persistent and enduring misbehavior, to achieve the occasional reward.</p><p></p><p>It seems like your daughter has gotten a power position in the family and it is this that needs to be addressed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 688414, member: 18958"] Hi Shes. Welcome. There has to be a way to disconnect from what she does, instead of going into panic mode which believe me I understand. Like a lock and a key. Right now she triggers your lock. What if you could come to make it so that her key no longer fits? I do not know how but I know it is possible. You may have to endure fits from her for a while until she gets there will be no response from you, that she wants. Remember intermittent responding with a reward (giving in) is the worst. That is, only occasionally rewarding her behavior. That has been shown to result in the most persistent and enduring misbehavior, to achieve the occasional reward. It seems like your daughter has gotten a power position in the family and it is this that needs to be addressed. [/QUOTE]
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