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Q is at MOA with an Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker, he was fine and suddenly while walking back to the car he started going off... I can hear him screaming and ranting in the parking lot etc. I am amazed there is no security running there, they have cameras everywhere and he was trying to kick and spit at her. This smacks of a seizure. Just so totally out of control, and we haven't had that for over a week. I am going to have them stay closer to home because I need to get to them faster if this happens. She is super experienced but anyone can only take so much.
He said he is going to calm but he is screaming while saying it, it seems way beyond his control. I have my stuff on ready to run out there but she is saying she is going to try it because she thinks he will be better for her than if I show up and force him to my car. Hard thing with her is he will say NO I wlll not do x, y z, and sometimes she gets it that it is all talk, he does what he is saying he wont do, but other times she argues with him and says then we can't do whatever.... so I reminded her when I heard him and she said well then I wont open the car that he is trying to get in and calm so maybe just climb in and dont start teh car... she did and he was quieter and she said she will pull over and call me if he can't make it home. He wants to see a show when he gets home....so do I say well you turned it around so yes you can or do I risk escalating him by taking away the one thing that he is focusing on to get home and stay calm?
I hate these times....
He said he is going to calm but he is screaming while saying it, it seems way beyond his control. I have my stuff on ready to run out there but she is saying she is going to try it because she thinks he will be better for her than if I show up and force him to my car. Hard thing with her is he will say NO I wlll not do x, y z, and sometimes she gets it that it is all talk, he does what he is saying he wont do, but other times she argues with him and says then we can't do whatever.... so I reminded her when I heard him and she said well then I wont open the car that he is trying to get in and calm so maybe just climb in and dont start teh car... she did and he was quieter and she said she will pull over and call me if he can't make it home. He wants to see a show when he gets home....so do I say well you turned it around so yes you can or do I risk escalating him by taking away the one thing that he is focusing on to get home and stay calm?
I hate these times....