We run into laundry issues periodically with difficult child. I've shown him for YEARS how to do laundry and he just.....honestly, I don't know WHAT his problem is. He either has the washer set on a full load and washes a shirt and two pair of boxers or he has the thing STUFFED full. There is no inbetween. (Although he HAS done "correct" loads before) I tell him over and over and over and over again....do a full load BUT a full load only consists of *this* and have a load's worth in a basket to show him. NOTHING I do gets through. One of these days he's going to kill the washer or dryer because of this. Have any of you come up against this and developed any kind of measuring system that your difficult child or easy child GOT? I've shown him REPEATEDLY what amounts to a proper full load using the same laundry basket each time as a visual. I really don't know if he isn't getting it or if he just doesn't care or if he (as usual) thinks I'm stupid. I quit doing his laundry years ago for a reason and I'm not about to start doing it again. Help!!!!