etiquette is NOT my thing. I grew up on a pig farm... I am going to my ex-brother-in-law's wedding at 5 tonight. The roads are icy and its a 3 hour drive in good weather (I'm leaving here in about 30 minutes to account for road conditions). The bride is wearing a cream suit. The groom is wearing a suit. The attendants are each of the couples daughters, they are wearing satin and organza dresses (I MADE THEM!!!) What should I wear??? I wnt to wear something nicer than jeans, but I'm not about to drive up there in "dressy" clothes, which means I'll have to change in a gas station somewhere. The groom assures me jeans are fine. Will a nice pair of new jeans and a sweater and jewelry really be ok?? ACK I hate this.