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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 653576" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Oh Weary, I'm so sorry. That's the thing with our Difficult Child, things come out of left field.</p><p></p><p>First of all, this man that called you, he made a choice to help her, that's on him not you. You now know what number he is calling from so you can add that one to your block list.</p><p></p><p>You did the right thing by telling him to call the police. Again, it's on him that he chooses not to. I get that he might be an ex addict and wanted to help but that does not negate the responsibility of having someone in his apt. that should not be there. He made a poor choice in that regard.</p><p></p><p>Even if you did drive the couple of hours to go get her, a lot can happen in a couple of hours. There is no guarantee that she would still be there.</p><p></p><p>I highly suggest you get hooked with an al-anon meeting. You know that we are always here for you but I do think if you had some face to face help from others who are traversing the same path would be so beneficial to you.</p><p></p><p>I know how you feel and I know how it can feel like it will never end but I assure you, you will get through this.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and let us know how things are going.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" />from all of us!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 653576, member: 18516"] Oh Weary, I'm so sorry. That's the thing with our Difficult Child, things come out of left field. First of all, this man that called you, he made a choice to help her, that's on him not you. You now know what number he is calling from so you can add that one to your block list. You did the right thing by telling him to call the police. Again, it's on him that he chooses not to. I get that he might be an ex addict and wanted to help but that does not negate the responsibility of having someone in his apt. that should not be there. He made a poor choice in that regard. Even if you did drive the couple of hours to go get her, a lot can happen in a couple of hours. There is no guarantee that she would still be there. I highly suggest you get hooked with an al-anon meeting. You know that we are always here for you but I do think if you had some face to face help from others who are traversing the same path would be so beneficial to you. I know how you feel and I know how it can feel like it will never end but I assure you, you will get through this. Keep posting and let us know how things are going. :group-hug:from all of us!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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