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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 724784" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Good morning EM </p><p></p><p>For each of us it is different. I think we can learn from others and take what we need and leave the rest. </p><p></p><p>I think the struggle here is that there is no hard and fast rule or right or wrong. </p><p></p><p>I would suggest setting firm boundaries and expectations with your son. Make them something you can enforce and also what you can comfortably life with. If your son is compliant with these boudaries and expectations then that is all good. If not a discussion and course correction will be needed. If he is not compliant there need to be consequences. </p><p></p><p>Our Adult children are not always going to live the life we desire for them. We need to learn wnat we hope and desire is what WE hope and desire. They have their own path and their own right to live their life their way; as long as it does not infringe on others by not meeting boudaries and expectation. </p><p></p><p>I wish you well, I know it is very hard not to worry ourselves to death.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 724784, member: 21895"] Good morning EM For each of us it is different. I think we can learn from others and take what we need and leave the rest. I think the struggle here is that there is no hard and fast rule or right or wrong. I would suggest setting firm boundaries and expectations with your son. Make them something you can enforce and also what you can comfortably life with. If your son is compliant with these boudaries and expectations then that is all good. If not a discussion and course correction will be needed. If he is not compliant there need to be consequences. Our Adult children are not always going to live the life we desire for them. We need to learn wnat we hope and desire is what WE hope and desire. They have their own path and their own right to live their life their way; as long as it does not infringe on others by not meeting boudaries and expectation. I wish you well, I know it is very hard not to worry ourselves to death. [/QUOTE]
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