HMBgal
Well-Known Member
I was so excited that it looked my grandson finally had found a friend. He also has issues, an adoptee, and the adopted mom is a child psychologist. Kind of perfect, right? The boys would go fishing together, to the park, an odd kid but I like him. Grandson has been trying to call him to invite him to go to a swimming place for the day. We all go as a family and it's really nice. But the phone calls weren't returned.
We get a text from the Mom saying that she would like to talk with us about something disturbing that happened between the two boys. My heart sank into my shoes. The boy (he's 12) says that grandson asked to see the boy's penis, touch it, wanted him to do the same, and put his mouth on him, and that he had sex with a girl while at school. My grandson is 11, just entering into puberty. He got into trouble showing kids porn on his computer about three years ago.
I don't even know how to approach this with grandson. I do believe the other boy. And before I jump to the conclusion that grandson is a predator and needs to be as far away from me and his sister (she's 9) as possible, am I overreacting? I remember pee pee play as a youngster and I grew up mostly okay (I guess).
So back to being horrified, embarrassed, how much do I lock this kid down, what kind of help do I get for this? Do I even let him out of the house? My stomach hurts and I'm having a hard time looking at him. He knows Pop Pop and I are upset and acting weird but he doesn't know why.
We get a text from the Mom saying that she would like to talk with us about something disturbing that happened between the two boys. My heart sank into my shoes. The boy (he's 12) says that grandson asked to see the boy's penis, touch it, wanted him to do the same, and put his mouth on him, and that he had sex with a girl while at school. My grandson is 11, just entering into puberty. He got into trouble showing kids porn on his computer about three years ago.
I don't even know how to approach this with grandson. I do believe the other boy. And before I jump to the conclusion that grandson is a predator and needs to be as far away from me and his sister (she's 9) as possible, am I overreacting? I remember pee pee play as a youngster and I grew up mostly okay (I guess).
So back to being horrified, embarrassed, how much do I lock this kid down, what kind of help do I get for this? Do I even let him out of the house? My stomach hurts and I'm having a hard time looking at him. He knows Pop Pop and I are upset and acting weird but he doesn't know why.