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<blockquote data-quote="JaneBetty" data-source="post: 707288" data-attributes="member: 20814"><p>Strengthened by Hope, your son's life is not your fault.</p><p></p><p>Stop thinking his choices are your fault.</p><p></p><p>Reread SWOT and RN0441's posts several times. They are trying to show you the way through their own experiences.</p><p></p><p>Your son has had the skills to keep a roof over his head and two meals coming to his door through manipulating his parents' emotions. None of this is healthy and it is clear you are in pain and you know deep down it won't change on his end.</p><p></p><p>You have been a good parent who continues to express concern for your offspring, but you know the dynamic needs to change otherwise the pain will continue. You can't be the person you want to be and be in this pain at the same time.</p><p></p><p>You must find the strength to step up and stop giving into your fears, and you've taken a real step forward by posting here. Many people have experienced this dilemma here. Keep posting, and others will give you much the same advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JaneBetty, post: 707288, member: 20814"] Strengthened by Hope, your son's life is not your fault. Stop thinking his choices are your fault. Reread SWOT and RN0441's posts several times. They are trying to show you the way through their own experiences. Your son has had the skills to keep a roof over his head and two meals coming to his door through manipulating his parents' emotions. None of this is healthy and it is clear you are in pain and you know deep down it won't change on his end. You have been a good parent who continues to express concern for your offspring, but you know the dynamic needs to change otherwise the pain will continue. You can't be the person you want to be and be in this pain at the same time. You must find the strength to step up and stop giving into your fears, and you've taken a real step forward by posting here. Many people have experienced this dilemma here. Keep posting, and others will give you much the same advice. [/QUOTE]
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