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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 758161" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Well he called twice this morning and once to my daughter who is away with grad school. She told me what they talked about and she said he admits he needs to change and not do it his way anymore because it isn't working. Told her that he is dependent on having a girlfriend so he is not alone...</p><p>He and my husband talked for over an hour the last call. I just stay off the line. He tells my husband I am negative about his trip to Florida to see his female coworker.... Well, he always hated the hot weather and humidity. He always hated being in the sun and the beach... So all I said was Pack sunscreen it will be hot. I also said that when he returns he will need to focus on recovery because he will be back to his old routine... I figure it is best to stay silent because what I say isn't taken correctly.</p><p>If he calls this afternoon while my husband is at work... oh help me... I just want to ask what the reason is that he can't make it past 88 days sober? Seriously, as soon as he gets close to the 3 month mark he caves. This last girl even said to him that she missed the old person he was... same thing his long term girlfriend said as well... the drinking changes him... He is a different person. </p><p>He doesn't have friends because he always just concentrated on having a relationship. </p><p>I am going swimming now with a friend from church. I have to focus on other things. </p><p>Positives for the day:</p><p>He made it through the night.</p><p>He did talk to his sponsor- so he says and they are to do a zoom meeting today.</p><p>He did reach out to my husband, my parents and my daughter all before 10am his time...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 758161, member: 22817"] Well he called twice this morning and once to my daughter who is away with grad school. She told me what they talked about and she said he admits he needs to change and not do it his way anymore because it isn't working. Told her that he is dependent on having a girlfriend so he is not alone... He and my husband talked for over an hour the last call. I just stay off the line. He tells my husband I am negative about his trip to Florida to see his female coworker.... Well, he always hated the hot weather and humidity. He always hated being in the sun and the beach... So all I said was Pack sunscreen it will be hot. I also said that when he returns he will need to focus on recovery because he will be back to his old routine... I figure it is best to stay silent because what I say isn't taken correctly. If he calls this afternoon while my husband is at work... oh help me... I just want to ask what the reason is that he can't make it past 88 days sober? Seriously, as soon as he gets close to the 3 month mark he caves. This last girl even said to him that she missed the old person he was... same thing his long term girlfriend said as well... the drinking changes him... He is a different person. He doesn't have friends because he always just concentrated on having a relationship. I am going swimming now with a friend from church. I have to focus on other things. Positives for the day: He made it through the night. He did talk to his sponsor- so he says and they are to do a zoom meeting today. He did reach out to my husband, my parents and my daughter all before 10am his time... [/QUOTE]
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