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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 628092" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I feel your pain. My only son was difficult form birth. Father walked out (a difficult child and drug user also) I had a very troubled child on my hands. I had him in as many programs as I could afford and he was court ordered into drug rehab programs twice. We were in counseling too and he never participated, always very angry.</p><p></p><p>He gets into relationships with difficult children just as troubled as he is, the lastest I think if possible is worse.</p><p></p><p>He stole from me and helped his friends steal from me, he told me when he was in his late 20's that he had hated me.</p><p></p><p>My child will be 36 in a month and he can not get his life together. After the latest conn for money (lasting 6 months using my money for drugs) and the girl friend telling him how I was responsible for his problem in his life and him telling me he was was going to commit suicide and it was my fault. They hacked into my computer trying to access my banking accoiunts. I just couldn't 'do it' any more and he went no contact when I refused to give him more money.</p><p></p><p>He contacted me after a year (briefly) and lost contact again. He sent me text messages a few months ago and some pics. He has moved to Denver and he is working for a company (?)and when he gets his apartment he wants me to visit. So very sad for me, it is obviously another of his fantasies.</p><p></p><p>Girlie was supposed to move with him and they had a (violent) blow up and she moved back in with her mother.She posts on twitter about having her morning and afternoon joint in her car and her mother is catching on, she doesn't work. He posted on twitter that he wants her back and she is 'the love of his life'. Lots of police calls in the relationship.</p><p></p><p>The picture that he sent me of him is so sad, in my opinion he is clearly living on the streets and he looks really bad. And that is the picture he sends to me.</p><p></p><p>My son clearly, at least to me, has mental problems and there is absolutely nothing that I can do. The drug user has made him much more unstable.</p><p></p><p>At this point he does answer emails every month or so, that may disappear any time and he will be gone. I feel your pain and I know that there is not one thing we can do........just try the best you can to take care of yourself. I would never wish this nightmare on my worst enemy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 628092, member: 13558"] I feel your pain. My only son was difficult form birth. Father walked out (a difficult child and drug user also) I had a very troubled child on my hands. I had him in as many programs as I could afford and he was court ordered into drug rehab programs twice. We were in counseling too and he never participated, always very angry. He gets into relationships with difficult children just as troubled as he is, the lastest I think if possible is worse. He stole from me and helped his friends steal from me, he told me when he was in his late 20's that he had hated me. My child will be 36 in a month and he can not get his life together. After the latest conn for money (lasting 6 months using my money for drugs) and the girl friend telling him how I was responsible for his problem in his life and him telling me he was was going to commit suicide and it was my fault. They hacked into my computer trying to access my banking accoiunts. I just couldn't 'do it' any more and he went no contact when I refused to give him more money. He contacted me after a year (briefly) and lost contact again. He sent me text messages a few months ago and some pics. He has moved to Denver and he is working for a company (?)and when he gets his apartment he wants me to visit. So very sad for me, it is obviously another of his fantasies. Girlie was supposed to move with him and they had a (violent) blow up and she moved back in with her mother.She posts on twitter about having her morning and afternoon joint in her car and her mother is catching on, she doesn't work. He posted on twitter that he wants her back and she is 'the love of his life'. Lots of police calls in the relationship. The picture that he sent me of him is so sad, in my opinion he is clearly living on the streets and he looks really bad. And that is the picture he sends to me. My son clearly, at least to me, has mental problems and there is absolutely nothing that I can do. The drug user has made him much more unstable. At this point he does answer emails every month or so, that may disappear any time and he will be gone. I feel your pain and I know that there is not one thing we can do........just try the best you can to take care of yourself. I would never wish this nightmare on my worst enemy. [/QUOTE]
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