Okay, I have to start with the fact that I have never been one of "those" moms. I have always made my children suffer the consequences of their choices. I am their biggest advocate and cheerleader, but I have tried to raise them to be strong and independent as possible. I got a letter from Jana today. Actually I got six. They were dated from the 31st to the 7th. Most were okay, a little down, but she sounded strong. The one dated the 6th really worries me. She stated that everyone believes that she is faking her injuries. Even the ds. She said they told her that they had to have proof on Monday (8th) or they were making her start training. The physical trainer has told her one thing. The dr. has told her nothing. The physical therapist took her crutches on Monday and told her to get back to training (that was told in a 1 min. phone call on Monday.) She told me she was having bad thoughts. She asked me to call the state legislator and see if she could help. She is depressed and worried that she will do further damage and be damaged permanently. I don't know how much of the injury information is true, what she thought others said, what is fear?????? I found a # for the Battalion chaplain. Should I call? I don't want to be one of "those" moms---but I feel so helpless.