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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 756147" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Yes thank you for your response.</p><p></p><p>I guess I didn't really put into words what I was asking from the forum.</p><p></p><p>We have told him that she cannot come to our house because we are not comfortable with her being around due to her behavior from when he tried to break up with her before.</p><p></p><p>I don't think she is a bad person, but she has exhibited behaviors that I do not want to be around so do not want her in my home and I know he has no future with her (as he stated).</p><p></p><p>I told him that he can do what he wants. He can go see her at her house or they can go someplace. I didn't give him any ultimatums because I wouldn't do that. It's important to me that he gets his degree so he can support himself and he is doing well in school.</p><p></p><p>I worry that he will hurt her eventually and I worry that he will not be able to date anyone else because she will "run them off". All his choice. I know that. UGH.</p><p></p><p>I just had a problem that he blames us because he is lonely. That isn't fair. And I feel guilty even though I should not. Just need a crystal ball I think.</p><p></p><p>Just know that adult children at home isn't good and I look forward to the day when he can support himself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 756147, member: 15032"] Yes thank you for your response. I guess I didn't really put into words what I was asking from the forum. We have told him that she cannot come to our house because we are not comfortable with her being around due to her behavior from when he tried to break up with her before. I don't think she is a bad person, but she has exhibited behaviors that I do not want to be around so do not want her in my home and I know he has no future with her (as he stated). I told him that he can do what he wants. He can go see her at her house or they can go someplace. I didn't give him any ultimatums because I wouldn't do that. It's important to me that he gets his degree so he can support himself and he is doing well in school. I worry that he will hurt her eventually and I worry that he will not be able to date anyone else because she will "run them off". All his choice. I know that. UGH. I just had a problem that he blames us because he is lonely. That isn't fair. And I feel guilty even though I should not. Just need a crystal ball I think. Just know that adult children at home isn't good and I look forward to the day when he can support himself. [/QUOTE]
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