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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 756297" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Rn,</p><p>Just catching up. So sorry for this new issue you are dealing with. I am kind of in the same boat with my son in college, dating a very possessive girl. He revealed she has bi-polar and is not on medications.</p><p>Sigh, big sigh.</p><p>She is controlling and manipulative and is attempting to isolate my son from family. Same thing with the texting, if she texts and he doesn’t reply ASAP, she gets upset, really, really upset. If he calls me and she is there, she will constantly interrupt our conversation. It is painfully obvious to me that she is trying to control my son.</p><p>I have tried speaking with him, to no avail. I am hoping that he will grow tired of the constant drama and end the relationship. He will be 19 soon. We were super close before all of this, not so much anymore.</p><p>At this point, I don’t think there is much I can say to change his mind. He has to learn.</p><p>So, I feel your frustration, and fear of what may come to be.</p><p>You have a right to say who is allowed in your home. Especially after a stalking situation. For the life of me, I don’t know why our kids have to complicate their lives this way. My son is also very handsome and a great kid, but does have anxiety issues and has been a bit socially awkward, sort of an old soul that kids didn’t understand. He has been a loner and felt lonely too, like your son. Praying for us both that our sons will see their potential, that they are worthy of someone who will appreciate them for who they are. It is hard to watch this unhealthy relationship unfold with all of the control issues I see. Tried to tell son that there is a difference between love, possession and obsession. But he is as Owl defined in <u>Bambi </u>“twitter-pated!”</p><p>Deep breaths sis!</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 756297, member: 19522"] Hi Rn, Just catching up. So sorry for this new issue you are dealing with. I am kind of in the same boat with my son in college, dating a very possessive girl. He revealed she has bi-polar and is not on medications. Sigh, big sigh. She is controlling and manipulative and is attempting to isolate my son from family. Same thing with the texting, if she texts and he doesn’t reply ASAP, she gets upset, really, really upset. If he calls me and she is there, she will constantly interrupt our conversation. It is painfully obvious to me that she is trying to control my son. I have tried speaking with him, to no avail. I am hoping that he will grow tired of the constant drama and end the relationship. He will be 19 soon. We were super close before all of this, not so much anymore. At this point, I don’t think there is much I can say to change his mind. He has to learn. So, I feel your frustration, and fear of what may come to be. You have a right to say who is allowed in your home. Especially after a stalking situation. For the life of me, I don’t know why our kids have to complicate their lives this way. My son is also very handsome and a great kid, but does have anxiety issues and has been a bit socially awkward, sort of an old soul that kids didn’t understand. He has been a loner and felt lonely too, like your son. Praying for us both that our sons will see their potential, that they are worthy of someone who will appreciate them for who they are. It is hard to watch this unhealthy relationship unfold with all of the control issues I see. Tried to tell son that there is a difference between love, possession and obsession. But he is as Owl defined in [U]Bambi [/U]“twitter-pated!” Deep breaths sis! (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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