Shari
IsItFridayYet?
Ive talked about husbands nephew some before we dont hang out with his sis and nephew much anymore cause we basically dont agree with a lot of the behavior that husbands sister thinks is no big deal (drinking and driving, cutting school to smoke pot (its JUST pot, she says), etc). He dropped out of college and had no job for months. Sis and husbands mom were handing him gas and running money. She's let the past 3 girlfriends move in (all have been still in high school).
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Hes had a job the past 6 months or so. Seems to be doing a little better, tho drinking and driving is still an issue. I have been hesistant to spend too much time with them, but easy child 1 had been hanging out with nephew again here lately. Said he was doing a lot better.
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Nephew and my big boys have a lot of mutual friends. Small town, same age, etc. They were both invited to a wedding last night.
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Nephew got really drunk, dumped his girlfriend at the reception, and was showing off in the parking lot and hit a van. Damaged his car and the van. Reported it to the van owner (not a local) and used easy child 1s name when he told the van owner who he was! The bride eventually figured it out when the van owner pointed at nephew in the crowd and said Hes the one. He said his name was easy child."
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easy child is furious and rightfully so. He called nephews mom to come get nephew last night, but easy child knows nothing will change - nephew's mom will do nothing. She almost seemed angry to have to come get him, but in my book, hey, she lets it happen without consequence... She has her own DUI charges, so I guess it runs in the family.
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I think we may skip holidays with that side of the family this year. Its always bad. This isnt setting it up to be any better. I like my husband, but Im ready to ditch him just to avoid all the cr@p we get from dealing with his family. (kidding kinda)
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Hes had a job the past 6 months or so. Seems to be doing a little better, tho drinking and driving is still an issue. I have been hesistant to spend too much time with them, but easy child 1 had been hanging out with nephew again here lately. Said he was doing a lot better.
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Nephew and my big boys have a lot of mutual friends. Small town, same age, etc. They were both invited to a wedding last night.
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Nephew got really drunk, dumped his girlfriend at the reception, and was showing off in the parking lot and hit a van. Damaged his car and the van. Reported it to the van owner (not a local) and used easy child 1s name when he told the van owner who he was! The bride eventually figured it out when the van owner pointed at nephew in the crowd and said Hes the one. He said his name was easy child."
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easy child is furious and rightfully so. He called nephews mom to come get nephew last night, but easy child knows nothing will change - nephew's mom will do nothing. She almost seemed angry to have to come get him, but in my book, hey, she lets it happen without consequence... She has her own DUI charges, so I guess it runs in the family.
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I think we may skip holidays with that side of the family this year. Its always bad. This isnt setting it up to be any better. I like my husband, but Im ready to ditch him just to avoid all the cr@p we get from dealing with his family. (kidding kinda)
