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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665260" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You are very strong and clear, JKF.</p><p></p><p>You know you want to see your son, but only if he respects your boundaries. You have been traumatized. Your son has traumatized you. It is very hard to stay in the here and now when these feelings are triggered. Yet, you are doing so.</p><p>It is too late tonight, but are there steps that you can take that will allow you to feel safe in future nights? An alarm system? Motion Lights? A dog?</p><p>There is no need for guilt. You know that. Your son created the situation, not you.</p><p>I think there is a win. You are clear. Sandwiches in a neutral place where you feel safe, is a win.</p><p></p><p>You told him the truth. With integrity and clarity. I love you too much to have it be easy to see you like this. But you are overcoming your own pain and reaching out to me. To me, that is a way.</p><p>This is a win, too. All of this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665260, member: 18958"] You are very strong and clear, JKF. You know you want to see your son, but only if he respects your boundaries. You have been traumatized. Your son has traumatized you. It is very hard to stay in the here and now when these feelings are triggered. Yet, you are doing so. It is too late tonight, but are there steps that you can take that will allow you to feel safe in future nights? An alarm system? Motion Lights? A dog? There is no need for guilt. You know that. Your son created the situation, not you. I think there is a win. You are clear. Sandwiches in a neutral place where you feel safe, is a win. You told him the truth. With integrity and clarity. I love you too much to have it be easy to see you like this. But you are overcoming your own pain and reaching out to me. To me, that is a way. This is a win, too. All of this. [/QUOTE]
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