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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 665263" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>JKF we are with you this morning as well. As RE says circling the wagons, putting our protective care and concern and understanding over you.</p><p></p><p>I hope you were able to get to a calmer place last night and this morning. </p><p></p><p>I am glad you will see him today. Lay eyes on him and hand him those sandwiches and hug him hard and look into his eyes. I am glad you will be able to do that. </p><p></p><p>They teach us how to respond to them over time JKF. He has taught you and you responded as you needed to. It is so sad and so very very hard when it is your precious son. </p><p></p><p>He is going to Florida for the winter. That sounds like a good thing for him and a decision he is making. Perhaps it is true that he is better. I so hope so.</p><p></p><p>And JKF I believe if and when they do get better it is usually when they are away from us that it begins. That thought and belief gave me comfort when I did not see Difficult Child for a long long time. I saw that a daily or weekly relationship was not good for him or me during that time. I had to let go just like you have. </p><p></p><p>My heart is hurting for you right now because I well remember all you have been through. I praying that seeing him today will be good for your heart, though hard, and after that, tomorrow and in the coming days, you will fell a new relief and can go forward even more. </p><p></p><p>We are here for you. We care so much. See those wagons? Feel them? They are us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 665263, member: 17542"] JKF we are with you this morning as well. As RE says circling the wagons, putting our protective care and concern and understanding over you. I hope you were able to get to a calmer place last night and this morning. I am glad you will see him today. Lay eyes on him and hand him those sandwiches and hug him hard and look into his eyes. I am glad you will be able to do that. They teach us how to respond to them over time JKF. He has taught you and you responded as you needed to. It is so sad and so very very hard when it is your precious son. He is going to Florida for the winter. That sounds like a good thing for him and a decision he is making. Perhaps it is true that he is better. I so hope so. And JKF I believe if and when they do get better it is usually when they are away from us that it begins. That thought and belief gave me comfort when I did not see Difficult Child for a long long time. I saw that a daily or weekly relationship was not good for him or me during that time. I had to let go just like you have. My heart is hurting for you right now because I well remember all you have been through. I praying that seeing him today will be good for your heart, though hard, and after that, tomorrow and in the coming days, you will fell a new relief and can go forward even more. We are here for you. We care so much. See those wagons? Feel them? They are us. [/QUOTE]
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