difficult child has a neuropsychologist evaluation coming up on 3/31. I just don't know what diagnosis to give this child. I may never know. Bipolar, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), ODD, ADHD, you name it, perhaps a combo of all. She is failing 4th grade, so obviously it is time get her revaluated again since it was last done in 2nd grade. I am pulling my hair out getting an initial meeting scheduled between teacher, administration, myself and Easy Child specialist so I scheduled a private evaluation because I knew I could at least secure a date. So, should I go ahead and let the school district evaluate and keep the private evaluation scheduled and compare the 2 assessments? Or is it a waste of $ and time? She is so consistent in her inconsistency I thought I might keep both scheduled and see what shakes out. Any thoughts?