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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 680944" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>As I stated in a comment on the SA forum, that happened to me also and caused me to make sure our will and beneficiaries were split down the middle with no restrictions. I will have to live with the fact that my father decided I was not enough of his daughter to keep my name on his life insurance. It was a very small policy and never was about the money. It was about the message that sent me. But he was always like that, he changed his will every time he got mad at one of his kids. He died with nothing but a small insurance policy. He even left the flag on his coffin to the youngest even though he promised it to me year sago.</p><p></p><p>I know I sound bitter but I'm not. He was not a good father, he never understood unconditional love. I don't ever want either of my kids to doubt my love for them equally even for a moment. If they squander the money so be it, I will be gone and not see it. But I will not leave them scarred and hating each other. I will never have a relationship with my sister because of what he did. That is the last thing I wish for my kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 680944, member: 59"] As I stated in a comment on the SA forum, that happened to me also and caused me to make sure our will and beneficiaries were split down the middle with no restrictions. I will have to live with the fact that my father decided I was not enough of his daughter to keep my name on his life insurance. It was a very small policy and never was about the money. It was about the message that sent me. But he was always like that, he changed his will every time he got mad at one of his kids. He died with nothing but a small insurance policy. He even left the flag on his coffin to the youngest even though he promised it to me year sago. I know I sound bitter but I'm not. He was not a good father, he never understood unconditional love. I don't ever want either of my kids to doubt my love for them equally even for a moment. If they squander the money so be it, I will be gone and not see it. But I will not leave them scarred and hating each other. I will never have a relationship with my sister because of what he did. That is the last thing I wish for my kids. [/QUOTE]
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