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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 759729" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear Zen</p><p></p><p>This is a very old thread. Why not post a new thread and that way others will see it.</p><p></p><p>Yours is a very sad story and one that many of us have experienced in one form or another; including me. </p><p></p><p>Is there a reason you don't speak to your mother directly about what you have learned? </p><p></p><p>How good for you could it be to hold this secret in your body? Here you are doing all of this for you, while she has betrayed you. Don't you think there could be healing, at least for you, if you tell her your truth? This might be freeing for her, to confront the truth of her life. Something is very toxic in her that she would do such a betrayal in life and from the grave. </p><p></p><p>Is it that you are afraid what she will tell you? Do you believe that she would say that she doesn't love you enough? I was in this exact same situation. I continued caring for my mother, even though I knew she did something similar but not nearly as bad. But perhaps had I been healthier I would have been able to protect myself better.</p><p></p><p>The damage is in her. The missing piece is in her. Why not be straight with yourself? And don't accept the twistedness as part of you. It's not yours to carry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 759729, member: 18958"] Dear Zen This is a very old thread. Why not post a new thread and that way others will see it. Yours is a very sad story and one that many of us have experienced in one form or another; including me. Is there a reason you don't speak to your mother directly about what you have learned? How good for you could it be to hold this secret in your body? Here you are doing all of this for you, while she has betrayed you. Don't you think there could be healing, at least for you, if you tell her your truth? This might be freeing for her, to confront the truth of her life. Something is very toxic in her that she would do such a betrayal in life and from the grave. Is it that you are afraid what she will tell you? Do you believe that she would say that she doesn't love you enough? I was in this exact same situation. I continued caring for my mother, even though I knew she did something similar but not nearly as bad. But perhaps had I been healthier I would have been able to protect myself better. The damage is in her. The missing piece is in her. Why not be straight with yourself? And don't accept the twistedness as part of you. It's not yours to carry. [/QUOTE]
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