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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 287416" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I would leave weapons out of it - it's too easy for someone like this to grab a weapon anduse it against you. Besides, he would ten be on firmer ground to claim you attacked him - after all, you had the weapon.</p><p></p><p>A strong suggestion re the doctor - get quotes for moving. Include in the qotes the cost to get someone else to do the packing (since your MS has flared up), the various costs associated with going into hiding, the health costs to SO, all other associated costs - then tell the doctor that unless the guy gets help, you will give the doctor the bill. </p><p></p><p>Of course, if this is totally unreasonable, then point out that you are understanably distraught, since this bloke deliberately made an opportunity to be alone with your So so he could kill you, he has made open threats, there is actualtyserious physical damage, the bloke has also openly declared that he is after you and your kids. You need to plan to move, and let the doctor know that this will become necessary if the police are unable to keep you safe. NAd without the doctor maknig tta phone call, the police cannot keep you safe.</p><p></p><p>it's in the doctor's hands. </p><p></p><p>I understand the need for confidentiality, but YOU are in trouble, you are also a patient of this doctor's and he has an obligation to you and SO as well.</p><p></p><p>Confront the doctor with the evidence, make it clear you do not want the doctor to divulge any details to you, but you DO want the doctor's help to be safe. Otherwise - you will have to go on the run. And that is expensive.</p><p></p><p>Or you could go to your local politicians, ask them to find ways to keep you safe. or go to the media. Complain about a system that allows a person to be attacked like this, to hear threats made with plenty of witnesses, and yet still not be able to be kept safe from the danger of further attacks. If you go to the media, push the problems for the kids too.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes you just have to fight dirty.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 287416, member: 1991"] I would leave weapons out of it - it's too easy for someone like this to grab a weapon anduse it against you. Besides, he would ten be on firmer ground to claim you attacked him - after all, you had the weapon. A strong suggestion re the doctor - get quotes for moving. Include in the qotes the cost to get someone else to do the packing (since your MS has flared up), the various costs associated with going into hiding, the health costs to SO, all other associated costs - then tell the doctor that unless the guy gets help, you will give the doctor the bill. Of course, if this is totally unreasonable, then point out that you are understanably distraught, since this bloke deliberately made an opportunity to be alone with your So so he could kill you, he has made open threats, there is actualtyserious physical damage, the bloke has also openly declared that he is after you and your kids. You need to plan to move, and let the doctor know that this will become necessary if the police are unable to keep you safe. NAd without the doctor maknig tta phone call, the police cannot keep you safe. it's in the doctor's hands. I understand the need for confidentiality, but YOU are in trouble, you are also a patient of this doctor's and he has an obligation to you and SO as well. Confront the doctor with the evidence, make it clear you do not want the doctor to divulge any details to you, but you DO want the doctor's help to be safe. Otherwise - you will have to go on the run. And that is expensive. Or you could go to your local politicians, ask them to find ways to keep you safe. or go to the media. Complain about a system that allows a person to be attacked like this, to hear threats made with plenty of witnesses, and yet still not be able to be kept safe from the danger of further attacks. If you go to the media, push the problems for the kids too. Sometimes you just have to fight dirty. Marg [/QUOTE]
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