I found your site and am hoping that a few of you can help me. My son is 32, my husband and I have been through over twelve years of his drug abuse, five rehabs, halfway homes, three cars totaled, court fees, attorney fees, cell phones, clothes, food, pawned items, etc.. He gets well for a short period of time, then the cycle begins. We let go several months ago, he was homeless on the streets and overdosed twice, brought back to life. We saved him, and he once again went into rehab. outpatient, on suboxine and aderol. Didn't take per script. his girlfriend is a heroin addict, due in two weeks. He wants her to move in with us. He is drinking and verbally abusing us. As, I write this, I am thinking we are so out of normality to continue living this way. My husband has many heart illnesses and my blood pressure is sky high. I love my son, but, don't want him living with us. I am scared, and he tries to run our lives. When he is not using, he is the sweetest person and so fun to be around. My heart is broken. His baby is due in a couple weeks, he plans on starting a job next week and yells at us for not buying anything for the baby yet. All our money has gone to saving him. Please help, I want to run away.