I wrote back thanking her and then asked if we could have a tour with Q on Friday since I think putting him on a long bus ride to some place he has never even seen to meet people he has never talked to before would be cruel. I can't find my card for the teacher. I will ask the law advocate for it.... there is break for both districts next week so if they dont arrange for this this week they want him just to get on a bus the following Monday and just start? No meetings to set things up or anything??? Seriously, there are so many details, medications, sensory issues, etc...things that are not in any papers they would ever get. I wont say anything to them but just ask to see the place because I dont want to tick anyone off but what can they be thinking? Of course I still wonder because the other district had said they were very cautious about taking out of member kids lately with a big switch in their sp ed director position. She doesn't want to leave the incoming person with any complicated issues. I can't help wanting to guard my heart and prepare for the stress of a no go. I dont want to be blind-sided.