Well we've struck new ground with difficult child 1 in both bad and good ways. He has been the best ever, compliant (mostly), nice to siblings, good grades. And, he has kept this up for weeks. Now the bad, in the past his aggression was directed towards his siblings. Now that he is only 1/2 inch shorter than me it was me getting it. I'm glad it wasn't his siblings, not thrilled it being me either though. It has only happened once so far it will happen again. Now that we've found a program that works I'm trying to make home more like the program. The kids are excited. We're starting mystery motivator tomorrow.