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NEW HERE-15 YR OLD DAUGHTER ODD
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<blockquote data-quote="dvicario" data-source="post: 59723" data-attributes="member: 3909"><p>HI, MY NAME IS DEANNA, I AM MARRIED WITH 3 KIDS. AGES 18, 15 AND 6.</p><p></p><p>THE FIRST AND LAST CHILD ARE DOING WELL. MY MIDDLE ONE, NOT SO WELL. SHE WAS ALWAYS VERY QUIRKY, THEN AT THE AGE OF 12, CHANGED OVERNIGHT. I THOUGHT IT WAS DRUGS.HER SYSTEM WAS CLEAN.</p><p></p><p>AFTER 3 YEARS OF THERAPY, AND SCHOOL EVALUATIONS, SHE IS diagnosis ODD. THE SCHOOL PSYCHIATRIST DETERMINED SHE HAS AN EMOTIONAL DISORDER.SHE HAS EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AT SCHOOL AS WELL AS ACADEMIC SUPPORT. NO MORE COUNSLERS BECAUSE I WAS SPENDING LOADS OF MONEY TO SIT IN A ROOM WHERE SHE WOULDNT TALK. NOTHING CHANGED.</p><p></p><p>THE REASON I CAME TO THIS SITE IS THAT I HAVE COME TO ACCEPT THAT ALL I CAN DO IS LOVE HER, BE THERE, OFFER SUPPORT AND **HOPE FOR THE BEST** </p><p></p><p>ALL OF MY EFFORTS, DOCTORS, COUNSELORS, PUNISHMENTS, TACTICS, PLANS, CHANGES, LECTURES, TALKS ALL DID NOTHING. BOTTOM LINE.......SHE DOES WHAT SHE WANTS. LAST NIGHT FOR THE FIRST TIME, SHE CAME HOME BOMBED. THIS MORNINGS TALK HAD ZERO EFFECT ON HER. </p><p></p><p>SHE IS GROUNDED, BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT IT WILL HAVE ZERO EFFECT ON HER. THAT NOTHING I DO OR SAY CAN "TOUCH" HER. </p><p></p><p>I AM TRYING MY BEST. BUT ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. IN OTHER WORDS...IT DOESNT WORK. I AM GIVING IT TO GOD. I WILL CONTINUE TO OFFER HELP AND SUPPORT. BUT I WONT MAKE MYSELF SICK OVER THIS ANYMORE. OH....I AM ALSO BATTLING MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS. JUS THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG. THANKS FOR LISTENING. DEANNA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dvicario, post: 59723, member: 3909"] HI, MY NAME IS DEANNA, I AM MARRIED WITH 3 KIDS. AGES 18, 15 AND 6. THE FIRST AND LAST CHILD ARE DOING WELL. MY MIDDLE ONE, NOT SO WELL. SHE WAS ALWAYS VERY QUIRKY, THEN AT THE AGE OF 12, CHANGED OVERNIGHT. I THOUGHT IT WAS DRUGS.HER SYSTEM WAS CLEAN. AFTER 3 YEARS OF THERAPY, AND SCHOOL EVALUATIONS, SHE IS diagnosis ODD. THE SCHOOL PSYCHIATRIST DETERMINED SHE HAS AN EMOTIONAL DISORDER.SHE HAS EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AT SCHOOL AS WELL AS ACADEMIC SUPPORT. NO MORE COUNSLERS BECAUSE I WAS SPENDING LOADS OF MONEY TO SIT IN A ROOM WHERE SHE WOULDNT TALK. NOTHING CHANGED. THE REASON I CAME TO THIS SITE IS THAT I HAVE COME TO ACCEPT THAT ALL I CAN DO IS LOVE HER, BE THERE, OFFER SUPPORT AND **HOPE FOR THE BEST** ALL OF MY EFFORTS, DOCTORS, COUNSELORS, PUNISHMENTS, TACTICS, PLANS, CHANGES, LECTURES, TALKS ALL DID NOTHING. BOTTOM LINE.......SHE DOES WHAT SHE WANTS. LAST NIGHT FOR THE FIRST TIME, SHE CAME HOME BOMBED. THIS MORNINGS TALK HAD ZERO EFFECT ON HER. SHE IS GROUNDED, BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT IT WILL HAVE ZERO EFFECT ON HER. THAT NOTHING I DO OR SAY CAN "TOUCH" HER. I AM TRYING MY BEST. BUT ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. IN OTHER WORDS...IT DOESNT WORK. I AM GIVING IT TO GOD. I WILL CONTINUE TO OFFER HELP AND SUPPORT. BUT I WONT MAKE MYSELF SICK OVER THIS ANYMORE. OH....I AM ALSO BATTLING MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS. JUS THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG. THANKS FOR LISTENING. DEANNA [/QUOTE]
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