My son is 13, an 8th grader at a new school due to moving. He just got an IEP for ADHD. He also has ODD. He got in 2 fights at school and was charged for both of them. We have gone to court and he is under house arrest and has beeen expelled from school. I am at such a loss, I do not know what to do. I cannot even find the words. I now have to find a new school for him, I don't even know how. I feel helpless as to what to do and I probably am not making any logical sense but I thought maybe it would help to write it down and maybe someone would say something that would help me.