I'm new here, and my youngest was just diagnosed with ODD. It's nice to see that there's a place where parents like us can discuss the issues with our children and not have people tell us we're bad parents (or worst case that I got was to give my child up). My youngest hasn't been diagnosed with anything else other than the ODD, at least not yet. She wears me out. From the time she gets up in the morning until the time she finally goes to sleep it feels like it's one battle after another with her. Bedtime is the worst, by far. I put her to bed and she's up for another 8 hours, only seems to sleep about 4 hours and is up again for the day. From what I see with my daughter, she basically is trying to be an adult and dictate what goes on in the house. It's frustrating and exhausting. I look forward to being an active member here.