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New here- is there ever an uphill??
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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 627814" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>you've gotten good feedback from the other parents here, a couple things i think got overlooked.</p><p></p><p>there are 5 stages to grief -denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance</p><p></p><p>one mom said her daughter instead of grieving was angry, i think she just got stuck in the denial/ anger stage ; I totally get it my x had me stuck in the anger/depression stage for like 15 years and even now having hit acceptance would probably snap and be looking at assault charges if saw him so yep still stuck in angry over here</p><p></p><p>grief from suicide is totally compounded with thoughts of i should have told them how important there are to me, could i have done something to prevent it, if only... etc.</p><p></p><p>having gone thru medication trials with these girls - it is a test in perseverance, not just for the patient but family, friends, coworkers... everyone involved. </p><p></p><p>my kids at times don't approve of something i do or don't like some injustice in society; my thing is ok your feelings are valid. if don't like what i'm doing you're free to move out get your own place, i'll help you pack and get you some boxes. if its some injustice i ask them to make up there mind; either sit alone and whine cause i'm not listening to it or get off their lazy fanny and do something to fix what they feel is broken.</p><p></p><p>i'll climb down off my soapbox now use what you can and leave the rest, please know when find the right medications it does get better</p><p></p><p>nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 627814, member: 7170"] you've gotten good feedback from the other parents here, a couple things i think got overlooked. there are 5 stages to grief -denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance one mom said her daughter instead of grieving was angry, i think she just got stuck in the denial/ anger stage ; I totally get it my x had me stuck in the anger/depression stage for like 15 years and even now having hit acceptance would probably snap and be looking at assault charges if saw him so yep still stuck in angry over here grief from suicide is totally compounded with thoughts of i should have told them how important there are to me, could i have done something to prevent it, if only... etc. having gone thru medication trials with these girls - it is a test in perseverance, not just for the patient but family, friends, coworkers... everyone involved. my kids at times don't approve of something i do or don't like some injustice in society; my thing is ok your feelings are valid. if don't like what i'm doing you're free to move out get your own place, i'll help you pack and get you some boxes. if its some injustice i ask them to make up there mind; either sit alone and whine cause i'm not listening to it or get off their lazy fanny and do something to fix what they feel is broken. i'll climb down off my soapbox now use what you can and leave the rest, please know when find the right medications it does get better nancy [/QUOTE]
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