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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 22489" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>It kind of depends on what is wrong with your child...</p><p>We tried so many different types of behavior modifications... try what you feel comfortable with. But you really need to be consistant and so does husband.</p><p>We found because our difficult child has auditory issues and becomes overwhelmed with too much talk, we have to be very to the point, direct, not much talk. </p><p></p><p>"Kiki you may come to the table now" I say it slow give her time... wait... say it again...wait ... say it a 3rd time very slow at her level.... wait... then guide her to the table and say let's go to the table, or I asked you to go to the table, It is time to go to the table. I don't get mad and after a few days she was actually listening a lot better for being as oppisitional as she is.</p><p></p><p>Just a suggestion...</p><p></p><p>Some use charts, rewards, timeouts etc. These things didn't work for us... And sometimes when she is cycling she can't listen and I have to help her more, redirect, hold her, let her know she is not a bad girl.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there you will find something sooner or later that will help or work.</p><p>As far as an evaluation... start researching them read about them on the archives, read others experiences to get yourself comfortable with the idea and what to expect. Keep asking questions...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 22489, member: 3155"] It kind of depends on what is wrong with your child... We tried so many different types of behavior modifications... try what you feel comfortable with. But you really need to be consistant and so does husband. We found because our difficult child has auditory issues and becomes overwhelmed with too much talk, we have to be very to the point, direct, not much talk. "Kiki you may come to the table now" I say it slow give her time... wait... say it again...wait ... say it a 3rd time very slow at her level.... wait... then guide her to the table and say let's go to the table, or I asked you to go to the table, It is time to go to the table. I don't get mad and after a few days she was actually listening a lot better for being as oppisitional as she is. Just a suggestion... Some use charts, rewards, timeouts etc. These things didn't work for us... And sometimes when she is cycling she can't listen and I have to help her more, redirect, hold her, let her know she is not a bad girl. Hang in there you will find something sooner or later that will help or work. As far as an evaluation... start researching them read about them on the archives, read others experiences to get yourself comfortable with the idea and what to expect. Keep asking questions... [/QUOTE]
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