I am not sure if this is where I belong, but I thought I'd give it a try. I have two difficult children, a 12 yo boy and 10 yo girl. Both have some level of attachment disorder, I believe. I am feeling a bit at my wits end. My DS is once again getting into trouble on the bus. He has had problems of one kind or another every year since kindergarten. The last two years neither of my kids rode the bus, as we lived close enough to walk to school, but this year that didn't work out. I am at the point where I don't know if my son is always causing the problems, or if he is getting caught up in others causing problems, and therefore guilty by association. When he tells me about what has happened on the bus, he gets very angry and calls the driver names. I have explained to him that while he may feel angry at the driver, that does not give him the right to be disrespectful or call the driver names, even when only speaking to me. I just don't know what to do. Are there others here that can share insight? or do you know of another forum where I might find some? Thanks so much.