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<blockquote data-quote="Praecepta" data-source="post: 703731" data-attributes="member: 20025"><p>1. You sound like a wonderful mom! You did the right things WHEN you found out about this. And it is quite normal for "normal" people to not even consider that bad things are going on. We don't do those things ourselves, so would not even think anyone else would do these things. Like with myself, I read in the news about some nut doing something horrible and I just don't understand it! (As I'm not like that.)</p><p></p><p>2. I don't blame your daughters for being mad at anyone remotely involved with this. They will calm down with time (time heals all wounds).</p><p></p><p>3. You need a bit of help! Psychologists are very smart people and can help you to either deal with your daughters not having anything to do with you (for now) and/or can help you communicate with them in the right way so some healing can occur. This is a complex situation and a psychologist is better equipped to help you find some way to get your daughters back (if possible).</p><p></p><p>To find a psychologist, look in the phone directory for psychologists. Or ask your primary care doctor for a "referral". Or call your local county mental health department.</p><p></p><p>Your health insurance may limit who you can see. But there are also free or sliding fee options. Sadly in some areas there is a long waiting time to see a psychologist. Hopefully you will be able to see someone somewhat soon.</p><p></p><p>Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Praecepta, post: 703731, member: 20025"] 1. You sound like a wonderful mom! You did the right things WHEN you found out about this. And it is quite normal for "normal" people to not even consider that bad things are going on. We don't do those things ourselves, so would not even think anyone else would do these things. Like with myself, I read in the news about some nut doing something horrible and I just don't understand it! (As I'm not like that.) 2. I don't blame your daughters for being mad at anyone remotely involved with this. They will calm down with time (time heals all wounds). 3. You need a bit of help! Psychologists are very smart people and can help you to either deal with your daughters not having anything to do with you (for now) and/or can help you communicate with them in the right way so some healing can occur. This is a complex situation and a psychologist is better equipped to help you find some way to get your daughters back (if possible). To find a psychologist, look in the phone directory for psychologists. Or ask your primary care doctor for a "referral". Or call your local county mental health department. Your health insurance may limit who you can see. But there are also free or sliding fee options. Sadly in some areas there is a long waiting time to see a psychologist. Hopefully you will be able to see someone somewhat soon. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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