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<blockquote data-quote="Coralchet1" data-source="post: 716846" data-attributes="member: 22167"><p>No, I'm on my own...I haven't called the police yet either to find him. He's been active on his Facebook account so I know he's somewhere. </p><p>All I know is that I'm at my last straw. I've seen many councillors over the years to hear there is nothing I can do to control him...he needs to want the help given and he chooses not to. My hands are tied. He was informed at 12 yrs old that he can make choices for himself and if he didn't want to be in councilling he didn't have to be- guess what, that gave him free range. He stopped going...he refuses to take medications to which was helping him..he was actually focussed and attended his classes. He went off his medications in grade 9... he failed that grade ...was able to attend grade 10 and failed that as well. Now, he's not a stupid kid by any means, he rather quite intelligent and smart- he just uses it in all the wrong ways. He also has a huge heart when he's not in the Jekyll and Hyde mode, but I don't see that to often. </p><p>He refuses to attend any form of family gatherings and won't do anything with me.. </p><p>he does was he wants, when he wants</p><p>He's broken all his electronics - cell also...because he got angry at who ever was on the other end, or a game didn't go right. As for the people he hangs out with ...they all seem to be just as disrespectful. Some have been in jail for stealing cars, and what ever else...I had my son arrested because the seargent and I agreed that maybe putting the fear of God into him might straighten him out. He was charged for destroying property at home. He was taken out in handcuffs in a fit of remorse for what had happen. He didn't change, sure he complied to the judges rules for that year..so he proved to me he Can control his anger "yet" once he was released from his conditions he was back to who he was before everything happen? Why is that? So confusing! </p><p>I take things away...he takes my things away..I ground him to the house he starts destroying and screaming all kinds of nasty things. I have had to walk away, sometimes even leave the house because if I'm not here he doesn't have an audience and stops braking the home I have provided. </p><p>I feel like checking out because I can't do this anymore and yet I know my son, the one that is kind, loving and understanding is somewhere in there...I've seen that boy come out once and awhile. </p><p>As for the drugs and the occasional drinking he does prefer drugs. I fear that he's doing much worse than pot as his one "friends" brother does crack and they've all hung out together....another friend of his was popping uppers...</p><p>I have a stomach ache</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coralchet1, post: 716846, member: 22167"] No, I'm on my own...I haven't called the police yet either to find him. He's been active on his Facebook account so I know he's somewhere. All I know is that I'm at my last straw. I've seen many councillors over the years to hear there is nothing I can do to control him...he needs to want the help given and he chooses not to. My hands are tied. He was informed at 12 yrs old that he can make choices for himself and if he didn't want to be in councilling he didn't have to be- guess what, that gave him free range. He stopped going...he refuses to take medications to which was helping him..he was actually focussed and attended his classes. He went off his medications in grade 9... he failed that grade ...was able to attend grade 10 and failed that as well. Now, he's not a stupid kid by any means, he rather quite intelligent and smart- he just uses it in all the wrong ways. He also has a huge heart when he's not in the Jekyll and Hyde mode, but I don't see that to often. He refuses to attend any form of family gatherings and won't do anything with me.. he does was he wants, when he wants He's broken all his electronics - cell also...because he got angry at who ever was on the other end, or a game didn't go right. As for the people he hangs out with ...they all seem to be just as disrespectful. Some have been in jail for stealing cars, and what ever else...I had my son arrested because the seargent and I agreed that maybe putting the fear of God into him might straighten him out. He was charged for destroying property at home. He was taken out in handcuffs in a fit of remorse for what had happen. He didn't change, sure he complied to the judges rules for that year..so he proved to me he Can control his anger "yet" once he was released from his conditions he was back to who he was before everything happen? Why is that? So confusing! I take things away...he takes my things away..I ground him to the house he starts destroying and screaming all kinds of nasty things. I have had to walk away, sometimes even leave the house because if I'm not here he doesn't have an audience and stops braking the home I have provided. I feel like checking out because I can't do this anymore and yet I know my son, the one that is kind, loving and understanding is somewhere in there...I've seen that boy come out once and awhile. As for the drugs and the occasional drinking he does prefer drugs. I fear that he's doing much worse than pot as his one "friends" brother does crack and they've all hung out together....another friend of his was popping uppers... I have a stomach ache [/QUOTE]
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