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[pigless in VA]

I need her to make the best of this but telling her that won't go over well. (for computer

That exactly what I told Ferb when he was on the psychiatric ward. I explained that it was his decision to go there, and he needed to learn from the experience. I think he believed I could get him out. I told him that he had to whatever he needed to do in order to get out. I didn't have the power; the doctors do.

Hang in there, Doglady. Do something soon to recharge yourself.