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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 34828" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>What is accountability ?</p><p></p><p>Accountability is not paying the price but rather a commitment to the future , a vision for the future . With this vision for the future which is achieved by helping the kid acquire skills and come up with a new plan. Only then a kid will be able to deal with the past , make resistitution , mend relationships. The apology comes at the end and it will be meaningful , not mere words. Try move away from ' doing to him' but rather working with him , dealing with his perceptions and building that relationship. It is a different dynamic and it will take both of you to move from a win-lose dynamic to a win-win dynamic.</p><p>The first step is to relax the atmosphere , connect . Consequences will just escalate tension and undermine the relationship , the most important tool in helping your kid</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 34828, member: 10"] Hi, What is accountability ? Accountability is not paying the price but rather a commitment to the future , a vision for the future . With this vision for the future which is achieved by helping the kid acquire skills and come up with a new plan. Only then a kid will be able to deal with the past , make resistitution , mend relationships. The apology comes at the end and it will be meaningful , not mere words. Try move away from ' doing to him' but rather working with him , dealing with his perceptions and building that relationship. It is a different dynamic and it will take both of you to move from a win-lose dynamic to a win-win dynamic. The first step is to relax the atmosphere , connect . Consequences will just escalate tension and undermine the relationship , the most important tool in helping your kid Allan [/QUOTE]
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