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<blockquote data-quote="BTDT" data-source="post: 12790" data-attributes="member: 3401"><p>Dear Marguerite,</p><p></p><p>You are absolutely right about punishment (key word) - punitive - leading to ODD. You are also right about children needing good modeling, all children need that.</p><p></p><p>As far as your saying:</p><p>"You say you've had success with strictness and consistent discipline - that's great. I agree it's what should work. But not for us. Consistency, yes. But punishment-based - it has led to the ODD-like symptoms we see."</p><p></p><p>Did I say that? I thought I had discussed reward and incentive. Besides, "punishment" and "strictness" are not in my parenting vocabulary. No matter who wrote it or read it incorrectly, I agree with you.</p><p></p><p>been there done that</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BTDT, post: 12790, member: 3401"] Dear Marguerite, You are absolutely right about punishment (key word) - punitive - leading to ODD. You are also right about children needing good modeling, all children need that. As far as your saying: "You say you've had success with strictness and consistent discipline - that's great. I agree it's what should work. But not for us. Consistency, yes. But punishment-based - it has led to the ODD-like symptoms we see." Did I say that? I thought I had discussed reward and incentive. Besides, "punishment" and "strictness" are not in my parenting vocabulary. No matter who wrote it or read it incorrectly, I agree with you. been there done that [/QUOTE]
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