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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 676772" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I have a few things I would have never done.</p><p></p><p>I have to explain, although I AM a bit of a prude in my own life, I can't say I would never allow a well behaving daughter and her well behaving boyfriend to stay with me FOR A SHORT WHILE. But a nasty pair? No way. And I would never leave my place for a grown child, nice or not nice.</p><p></p><p>You can't have a relationship with somebody who lies, takes drugs, and steals from you. An addict is sick and unable to be anything but until sober. I would definitely press charges on the stolen goods and get a policeman to lead you back to your house and get the two of them out. Your house is your sanctuary. You deserve to have peace IN YOUR HOME. If she has untreated Borderline (BPD) she is unlikely to ever have a stable relationship with you or anyone else. It is her own choice to seek out the long, harrowing path of good mental health by admitting she has a problem and seeking good help for herself and committing herself to hard work. It can be done, but only she can do it. Until she does, she is Borderline (BPD). Read the symptoms.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart. Prayers for you to be brave. I do know this is hard. But YOU matter and must take care of yourself first. Nobody should ever make you leave your house again. EVER.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 676772, member: 1550"] I have a few things I would have never done. I have to explain, although I AM a bit of a prude in my own life, I can't say I would never allow a well behaving daughter and her well behaving boyfriend to stay with me FOR A SHORT WHILE. But a nasty pair? No way. And I would never leave my place for a grown child, nice or not nice. You can't have a relationship with somebody who lies, takes drugs, and steals from you. An addict is sick and unable to be anything but until sober. I would definitely press charges on the stolen goods and get a policeman to lead you back to your house and get the two of them out. Your house is your sanctuary. You deserve to have peace IN YOUR HOME. If she has untreated Borderline (BPD) she is unlikely to ever have a stable relationship with you or anyone else. It is her own choice to seek out the long, harrowing path of good mental health by admitting she has a problem and seeking good help for herself and committing herself to hard work. It can be done, but only she can do it. Until she does, she is Borderline (BPD). Read the symptoms. Hugs for your hurting heart. Prayers for you to be brave. I do know this is hard. But YOU matter and must take care of yourself first. Nobody should ever make you leave your house again. EVER. [/QUOTE]
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