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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 729738" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Welcome. You are in the right place.</p><p></p><p>Your Mother Bear spidey sense is right on target. Your stepson is dangerously mentally ill and a predator. Videotaping a 12 year old girl in the bathroom is definitely NOT NORMAL even for a hormone crazed teenage boy. Porn yes, videotaping an unknowing (and very young) family member in the bathroom is absolutely in another dimension. </p><p></p><p>You are correct to fear that he will escalate and unfortunately, it sounds like everyone around you is enabling him.</p><p></p><p>None of us know your situation, or can tell you what to do.....with that said, I can tell you if it were ME I would take my biological children, leave the home and separate from Dad if he is unwilling to keep his other children safe from his oldest son. The alternative is that you stay and the situation worsens since nobody else is on the same (correct) page as you at the present time. My stepson is also enabled and allowed to do whatever he wants/get away with whatever he does. He is not a sexual predator to the best of our knowledge but he has become violent in the past. My wife (his mom) and her ex husband (the father) have never been on the same page as far as dealing with stepson and the situation has gotten worse and not better.</p><p></p><p>I do think your loyalty has to lie with your children over your husband, at least for now. I do think you need to get them away from their very sick stepbrother.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. You may want to consult an attorney to understand what your next step should be.</p><p></p><p>Make that you WILL want to consult an attorney.</p><p></p><p>All the best and please stick around and keep us posted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 729738, member: 13303"] Welcome. You are in the right place. Your Mother Bear spidey sense is right on target. Your stepson is dangerously mentally ill and a predator. Videotaping a 12 year old girl in the bathroom is definitely NOT NORMAL even for a hormone crazed teenage boy. Porn yes, videotaping an unknowing (and very young) family member in the bathroom is absolutely in another dimension. You are correct to fear that he will escalate and unfortunately, it sounds like everyone around you is enabling him. None of us know your situation, or can tell you what to do.....with that said, I can tell you if it were ME I would take my biological children, leave the home and separate from Dad if he is unwilling to keep his other children safe from his oldest son. The alternative is that you stay and the situation worsens since nobody else is on the same (correct) page as you at the present time. My stepson is also enabled and allowed to do whatever he wants/get away with whatever he does. He is not a sexual predator to the best of our knowledge but he has become violent in the past. My wife (his mom) and her ex husband (the father) have never been on the same page as far as dealing with stepson and the situation has gotten worse and not better. I do think your loyalty has to lie with your children over your husband, at least for now. I do think you need to get them away from their very sick stepbrother. I am so sorry. You may want to consult an attorney to understand what your next step should be. Make that you WILL want to consult an attorney. All the best and please stick around and keep us posted. [/QUOTE]
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