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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742394" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa....sexual abusers cant really redeem themselves. They cant take back the heinous act. The best gift, if he had a heart, would be to admit all, apoligize to her in a letter maybe (not in person) and promise to stay away from her forever. This is the type of crime that can ruin the other persons life. Its not like getting over being robbed. Its a private intimate violation. Its in the rape category.</p><p></p><p>Some things sadly can not be fixed. This is a very young girl. Its about her, not him. Also when people divorce usually its for good and they move on. I cant think of one reason for her not to do that, like I did, like a million people do. Ss will always be this man's son and his family is pushing him to pretend he is just a regular, normal kid, which he isnt. She maybe needs to find the love of somebody who understands the needs of her and her children... and who deeply cares... or in my opinion she is perhaps best off alone. This man and his son are not acting loving at all. The son will never be in any way good for the daughter. Why should she ever be pressured to see him, as is the norm in family gatherings. I could be wrong but I dont think she should ever feel she has to see him again. </p><p></p><p>Sometimes we need to just walk away for our health and safety and for that of our young loved ones. Everyone isnt me...I know this...but I was with my first husband 17 years. If I had not finally left, I never would have had my wonderful husband and family. I talk to my ex but I made a decision to leave him and have never been sorry.</p><p></p><p>Love amd light <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />. I hope I did not sound critical. I did not mean to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742394, member: 1550"] Copa....sexual abusers cant really redeem themselves. They cant take back the heinous act. The best gift, if he had a heart, would be to admit all, apoligize to her in a letter maybe (not in person) and promise to stay away from her forever. This is the type of crime that can ruin the other persons life. Its not like getting over being robbed. Its a private intimate violation. Its in the rape category. Some things sadly can not be fixed. This is a very young girl. Its about her, not him. Also when people divorce usually its for good and they move on. I cant think of one reason for her not to do that, like I did, like a million people do. Ss will always be this man's son and his family is pushing him to pretend he is just a regular, normal kid, which he isnt. She maybe needs to find the love of somebody who understands the needs of her and her children... and who deeply cares... or in my opinion she is perhaps best off alone. This man and his son are not acting loving at all. The son will never be in any way good for the daughter. Why should she ever be pressured to see him, as is the norm in family gatherings. I could be wrong but I dont think she should ever feel she has to see him again. Sometimes we need to just walk away for our health and safety and for that of our young loved ones. Everyone isnt me...I know this...but I was with my first husband 17 years. If I had not finally left, I never would have had my wonderful husband and family. I talk to my ex but I made a decision to leave him and have never been sorry. Love amd light :). I hope I did not sound critical. I did not mean to. [/QUOTE]
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