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<blockquote data-quote="Estranged2015" data-source="post: 647917" data-attributes="member: 18760"><p>Wow I am completely overwhelmed by all this wisdom. Kind of horrified to think of all the suffering that lies behind it, but selfishly happy to have this community of understanding people. I did change the locks, and will only see my son out of the house now. I didn't make an announcement to that effect, but have decided on it myself. He keeps nagging me by email to do things for him that he could do for himself ( can you get me a copy of my birth certificate? eg). So far I've just not responded --i don't know if that's right or not, but my instinct is to just not enter into his games. </p><p></p><p>I have been seeking a nar anon meeting, but the only one is in a bad neighborhood two buses away. I will take up the suggestion that I look for al anon instead -- perhaps which substance it is doesn't matter since I'll be learning self-care strategies? And I'll try again to create a signature so as to introduce myself. Yesterday I hadn't been a member long enough to be allowed. Thank you to recoveringenabler for helping my post find the right place, and to everybody for the warm welcome. Much, much a appreciated!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Estranged2015, post: 647917, member: 18760"] Wow I am completely overwhelmed by all this wisdom. Kind of horrified to think of all the suffering that lies behind it, but selfishly happy to have this community of understanding people. I did change the locks, and will only see my son out of the house now. I didn't make an announcement to that effect, but have decided on it myself. He keeps nagging me by email to do things for him that he could do for himself ( can you get me a copy of my birth certificate? eg). So far I've just not responded --i don't know if that's right or not, but my instinct is to just not enter into his games. I have been seeking a nar anon meeting, but the only one is in a bad neighborhood two buses away. I will take up the suggestion that I look for al anon instead -- perhaps which substance it is doesn't matter since I'll be learning self-care strategies? And I'll try again to create a signature so as to introduce myself. Yesterday I hadn't been a member long enough to be allowed. Thank you to recoveringenabler for helping my post find the right place, and to everybody for the warm welcome. Much, much a appreciated! [/QUOTE]
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