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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 647967" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I'm glad I could help you see things a little differently. His claim may very well be true about the abuse but even if it is you bear no responsibility.</p><p>My situation as I said my bio-father was the one. Abusers are very careful and very sneaky. He was abusing me and my sisters and our mother was clueless until my older sisters finally got the courage to tell her. Once she found out she got us out of that situation. I have done some therapy over the years for this and I never once blamed my mother, she was not the one who abused me, there was only one person to blame and that was my bio-father.</p><p>I learned holding onto any anger towards him only hurt me. I was no longer in that situation so why would I give him power over my emotions, I chose not to be a victim.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 647967, member: 18516"] I'm glad I could help you see things a little differently. His claim may very well be true about the abuse but even if it is you bear no responsibility. My situation as I said my bio-father was the one. Abusers are very careful and very sneaky. He was abusing me and my sisters and our mother was clueless until my older sisters finally got the courage to tell her. Once she found out she got us out of that situation. I have done some therapy over the years for this and I never once blamed my mother, she was not the one who abused me, there was only one person to blame and that was my bio-father. I learned holding onto any anger towards him only hurt me. I was no longer in that situation so why would I give him power over my emotions, I chose not to be a victim. [/QUOTE]
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